24 Public Places Where Gay Men Cruised
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When I was in elementary school and even into junior high, I found myself wanting to have an older man in my life. There was nothing wrong with my parents or my home life. I grew up in a stable middle class household, where all the I's were dotted and T's had been crossed. If I look back at my motivations for wanting to be with an older man. They were simple yet confusing. Something about them called to me.
Last year I was visiting Provincetown, MA. It is a known gay and lesbian community on Cape Cod. When I was waiting for the boat to come in to take me back to Boston, I could not believe the number of young boys, that were coming off of various boats to meet older men. Some of the age gaps were like father-son or grandfather-son age gaps.
This is a fair definition, but some guys would define cruising more loosely: a basic sex hunt, not something you specifically set out to do but rather something you are always doing. We do it on the subway and in the office and anywhere a handsome gentleman might lift his shirt to wipe sweat off his forehead. In our minds, we lift his shirt the rest of the way and tug on the brim of his trousers with our teeth. If you make eye contact with him and discover wordlessly and without complete certainty that you are both interested, then voila! Now all you have to do is work up the courage to talk to him, give him your number, or nod to the exit.